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11 Things I’ve Learned Since Your Murder

April 12, 2014 by Corinne Rodrigues 124 Comments

11 Things I’ve Learned Since Your Murder

I welcome one of the friendliest and talented bloggers I have the honour to know.  She is the most gentlest of souls and yet a fierce voice for women, especially those who are victims of domestic violence. Kim Sisto Robinson writes at My Inner Chick. Today, Kim shares what she learned from the tragic and brutal death of her beloved sister, Kay.

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Dear, Corinne, thank you for allowing me to Guest Post on your beautiful blog today. I am honored to be here in Mumbai to talk about my dear sister, Kay, who was murdered by her husband on May 26th, 2010. It was the saddest day of my life.

11 Things I’ve Learned Since Your Murder

It was a fine cry, loud and long, but it had no bottom and it had no top, just circles and circles of sorrow.” –Toni Morrison

1. drinking bottles of wine, praying for death, and trying to figure out ways to escape my new reality did not work. I had to walk directly, fully, and completely through the fire.

2. when somebody tells you who they are with words and actions, you better damn well believe them from the very beginning.

3. murder, deception, and darkness can happen in your own family. I know. It happened in mine.

4. no matter how ferociously you want to save somebody, you cannot. NO. That person can only save themselves.

5. the human body is capable of weeping uncontrollably for 365 strait days without ceasing. I find that fact astonishing.

6. God Lives.

7. the preparation of the past prepares you for the future. For example, I memorized the 23rd Psalm two months before my sister’s murder. After her murder on May 26th, it was the only prayer I could remember.

8. mourning never ends; it is only born into the world with its sharp- ugly- good for nothing claws. The pain must be woven into your new existence.

9. In the midst of your darkest hours, light finds a way through open windows.

10. the body may die, but the love endures forever and ever and ever.

11. my sister is NO LONGER a victim; she is now part of the solution to END domestic violence.

 

kay sisto

 

Our family will have the 4th annual Kay Marie Sisto Walk To End Domestic Violence on May 31st, 2014. Info Here: http://www.theduluthmodel.org/events.html

Video of Kay’s Last Days / No More Silence:

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This post is written for the letter ‘K’ for the Blogging From A to Z April Challenge 2014.

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  1. Pheno Menon says

    April 12, 2014 at 3:18 pm

    Such a tragedy domestic violence is and that’s a very positive way to look after all this

    PhenoMenon
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:13 pm

      Pheno,
      Thank you for reading my mourning. x
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  2. Michelle Liew says

    April 12, 2014 at 3:24 pm

    Domestic violence really must be made known. Thanks for sharing, Corrine.

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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:14 pm

      Michelle,
      I thank Corinne for utilizing this platform for positive, life-changing issues!! x
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  3. Shilpa Garg says

    April 12, 2014 at 3:30 pm

    So sorry about your sister, Kim. Yes, Domestic Violence should end certainly!
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:14 pm

      Shilpa,
      Domestic Violence WILL END, but we cannot do it alone. x
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  4. Jayanta Tewari says

    April 12, 2014 at 3:44 pm

    Very poignant. This menace should not happen at all.
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:32 pm

      Jayanta, I agree.
      Domestic. Violence. Should. NEVER. Happen. x
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  5. Priya says

    April 12, 2014 at 4:44 pm

    This is really sad. May she rest in peace..
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:33 pm

      Priya,
      She is at peace.
      Finally. x
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  6. maanneilaganlopez says

    April 12, 2014 at 5:41 pm

    Sorry about your sister. Nothing good with violence. And you’re correct, she’s now on a better place with God. Be strong
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:35 pm

      —Anybody who makes you “FEEL LESS than” is an abuser.

      Kay is w/ God. Knowing I will see her again, keeps me moving forward. x
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  7. Beloo Mehra says

    April 12, 2014 at 5:52 pm

    This was so very touching. And those pictures! Thanks Kim for sharing this, and especially for that 11th point. Thanks Corinne for hosting Kim.
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    • Corinne Rodrigues says

      April 12, 2014 at 8:58 pm

      Beloo, Kim is a keeper! You must connect with her.
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  8. Cathy Graham says

    April 12, 2014 at 6:15 pm

    So sad and tragic. My heart breaks for the family of this poor woman who was killed so senselessly. Too much of this happens and it makes me so sad.Thanks for enlightening us about this and raising awareness by hosting Kim, Corinne.
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  9. Corinne Rodrigues says

    April 12, 2014 at 6:30 pm

    Thank you posting here today, Kim. You are a light to many women out there – may you and the memory of Kay continue to shine bright. ♥♥
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  10. My Inner Chick says

    April 12, 2014 at 6:32 pm

    –Corinne,
    thank you for allowing so many women to utilize their voices upon your platform.
    By doing this, you are transforming the world!
    I truly believe this.
    With love & gratitude & many kisses from Duluth, Minnesota.
    Kim xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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  11. Eli says

    April 12, 2014 at 6:51 pm

    OMG, truly a talented writer. Kim, your pain and loss overwhelms me.. I get sad for your loss and angry for the fact that this happens in the world. Heart braking story, but your words will give consolation to many in similar situation. Corinne, thanks for presenting Kim’s story, dear:-)
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:36 pm

      Eli,
      thank you for reading and being a voice to END domestic violence! x
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  12. Suzy says

    April 12, 2014 at 7:21 pm

    Very sorry for your loss Kim. Your sister was beautiful. May she be at peace and may your quest to raise awareness and possibly even end domestic violence be successful. God Bless.
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:37 pm

      Susy,
      Thank you so much for reading this post. I love how Corinne brings awareness to so many important issues! x
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  13. Manal The Go Go Girl says

    April 12, 2014 at 7:29 pm

    Kim,

    I’m reaching out to you for a great big hug. I cannot imagine your pain.
    Corinne, Nice blog and thanks for spreading the word.
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    • Corinne Rodrigues says

      April 12, 2014 at 8:59 pm

      Thanks, Manal.
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  14. Mandy - The Complete Book says

    April 12, 2014 at 8:23 pm

    Kim, you never cease to amaze me with your strength! You are an incredible woman and I love that I know you more and more with each post.
    Love, hugs and happiness to you from a sunny South Africa,
    🙂 Mandy xoxoxo
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    • Mandy - The Complete Book says

      April 12, 2014 at 8:25 pm

      Corrine, thank your for hosting Kim on your lovely blog today. It is so important to share with the world the story of healing and of support.
      Have a beautiful love filled happy weekend.
      🙂 Mandy xo
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      • Corinne Rodrigues says

        April 12, 2014 at 9:00 pm

        Thank you, Mandy. This was long overdue. I love Kim and am inspired by all that she does despite her grief.
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  15. Vidya Sury says

    April 12, 2014 at 8:29 pm

    I am thrilled to see you here today, Kim. (Thank you Corinne!). Every word you wrote is true – I’ve lost so many of my dearest ones and the hurt and pain are always fresh. I feel your loss. I still remember the first time I visited your blog, years ago. (July 1, 2011 when you wrote about glorious green).

    I am proud to know you – and I wear the Kay Marie Sisto Walk Tshirt with pride.

    Love you Kim. Holding your hand tight in mine. Love you more than all the flowers in the Lalbagh Botanical Garden.

    Vidya
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:01 pm

      Vidya,
      I love you more than 11 white kittens playing in Minnesota snow. Xx
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  16. Danny Simon says

    April 12, 2014 at 8:36 pm

    I can understand the pain of losing someone… Loved that point-God lives…indeed He does and that’s what gives us hope that this life here on earth is not the end…
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:38 pm

      Danny,
      YES. GOD LIVES. I’ve heard His voice inside the darkness. x
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  17. lisa thomson-The Great Escape... says

    April 12, 2014 at 9:19 pm

    Kim, you are so brave! Your passion to end domestic violence in Kay’s honor is just f-ing amazing. Crying for 365 days in a row? Hoping to die? Look where you are now and how proud Kay must be! I love the video, it’s so powerful and such a beautiful reminder of Kay’s life. The fact that we might know someone suffering from domestic violence and we don’t actually see it is disturbing. Good luck with the run/walk for Kay! I wish I could be there.
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:39 pm

      Sweet, Lisa,
      thank you for your continued support to END DOMESTIC VIOLENCE….& being a powerful voice for ALL women. xx
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  18. Ellen M. Gregg says

    April 12, 2014 at 9:27 pm

    That you had to learn these lessons at all is heartbreaking, Kim.

    Most powerful: Kay is no longer a victim, she is part of the solution. As horrific as it all is, her murderer empowered her, via his vicious act, to make a difference from the other side.

    Goosebumps and tears.

    Love and peace to you, dearie. xoxo

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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:40 pm

      Ellen,
      it has taken almost 4 years to say that….but it’s true. Something so dark has transformed into light.

      WOW. xxxxx
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  19. Mary Purpari says

    April 12, 2014 at 10:25 pm

    Number 5 on the list is soooooo true. I never knew it was possible to cry so much. Just when I think the tears are over, they come back with a vengeance. Very important blog entry, here
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:41 pm

      YES, Mary,
      the body is AMAZING how it keeps on going…how the heart keeps on pumping.

      x
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  20. Bob Sanchez says

    April 12, 2014 at 10:26 pm

    Kim and Corrine, thank you for this post. When I was growing up, our family often seemed on the verge of domestic violence, but the weapons were usually words. Kim, I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful sister.
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:43 pm

      OMGOSH, Bob,
      words are like swords, razors, weapons.
      They made my sister, Kay, feel small. This was part of her abuse. x
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      • Bob Sanchez says

        April 13, 2014 at 9:25 pm

        Oh yes. My dad sometimes got physical, but mostly he used words like billy clubs. When I was about 20, he began screaming at me for something, hurling all kinds of insults at me while I stood there and took it. I was trembling, my arms down at my side and my fists clenched like I was trying to hold onto my sanity. He saw them and taunted me, saying I wanted to hit him but I was a bleeping coward. I denied it, saying I never wanted to hit him. But he kept taunting and taunting until suddenly I punched him in the face. We were both stunned. He didn’t speak to me for days, but I won his respect. One of his problems, I think, was that he demanded respect from his family without having to earn it. I have long since forgiven him–he’s been dead for decades–but my oldest brother will hate our dad until my brother’s dying breath.
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  21. Shailaja V says

    April 12, 2014 at 11:11 pm

    Thank you for sharing your pain, Kim. I cannot even begin to imagine what Kay must have gone through. I read your post on your blog two days ago and it left such a deep impression on me. I join you in praying for Kay’s soul and may you have the strength to do more and more in this cause to end domestic violence.
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:44 pm

      Shailaja,
      thank you SO MUCH for your prayers. I believe in the POWER of them. x
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  22. nan says

    April 12, 2014 at 11:47 pm

    My darling, powerful and poignant as usual. So few words to say so very, very much. I love you and am glad you made it through the darkness and can now embrace that light shining through the open windows (because there are more open windows every day). I can’t wait to meet Kay.
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:45 pm

      Love you, Nan.
      thank you for you continued prayers, kindness, and love. xx
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  23. Valentine Logar says

    April 12, 2014 at 11:53 pm

    As always, I love you…I walk with you…I remember with you…I lift you and if I could, for even one minute I would carry the burden of your grief in my heart.
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:46 pm

      Val,
      I feel your love. I send it back, dear. LOVE U. xx
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  24. Darla Sue Dollman says

    April 13, 2014 at 12:00 am

    I am so sorry this happened to your family. I spent most of my adult life abused, and also had a family member murdered by a family member. I wish I could say it gets better, but it doesn’t. I sometimes think that education will help, that telling people the statistics, to stop blaming the victims, to stop making excuses, that these things will change things, but there are so many people who still believe domestic violence is a race issue, or has something to do with education, income, or the one I heard the most when I reached out for help, “we’ve all said or done things to deserve being hit once in awhile.” No, no one ever “deserves” to be hit, punched, screamed at or murdered in their sleep. Keep talking–that’s the only way the world will change. Keep telling people that there really is no excuse, no reason, nothing that makes this okay. It will never be “okay.”
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:49 pm

      Darla,
      Abuse of any kind is NEVER okay or acceptable. NEVER. NEVER. NO.
      Thank you for using your voice to STOP it.
      As for me, I will NEVER stop talking or screaming about Kay’s story until my last breath. Even then I will not stop! x
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  25. lisa says

    April 13, 2014 at 12:11 am

    This is a wonderful post, Kim, and you, my friend, are amazing.
    xo.

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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:50 pm

      Lisa,
      thank you for reading, loving, commenting. xx
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  26. Debbie says

    April 13, 2014 at 1:23 am

    Outstanding list — ever so sorry you had to go through such heartache to compile it, though. Here’s hoping sadness will flee and happiness will descend upon you and your family and remain there! Love you bunches!
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:51 pm

      Sweet, Debbie,
      The happiness is just different now. We have a strong faith in GOD, so we know we shall be with Kay again. WOW. This helps tremendously. xx KISS.
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  27. elizabeth says

    April 13, 2014 at 2:23 am

    Dear Kim – beautiful and powerful post. But you always create words to stir up our hearts and minds! I know one day we will meet but while we wait for that to happen, I am so very ucky to have you in my life! Corinne- thanks for posting this on your page- we need to protect our sisters, no matter where they live. xx

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    • elizabeth says

      April 13, 2014 at 2:23 am

      Let’s make that “lucky!!!’

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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:52 pm

      Elizabeth,
      when we meet, I shall run up to you and HUG you tight and hard…then we shall drink wine and talk about life, writing, and cats! xxx
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  28. Carol Cassara says

    April 13, 2014 at 2:43 am

    Heartbreaking. Just heartbreaking.
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:53 pm

      Carol,
      thank you for reading my mourning. x
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  29. Sandra says

    April 13, 2014 at 4:46 am

    Hi Corinne, thank you so much for having Kim over here she is truly amazing. She always speaks the truth and she always speaks from her heart.

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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:54 pm

      Sandra,
      thank you for your continued support and love. Thank you for coming over to Corinnes’s wonderful blog, too! xx
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  30. Debi says

    April 13, 2014 at 5:54 am

    How great to see you here in Mumbai, Kim! And nice to meet you, Corinne! So, poignant as always, Kim. #1 on your list–yeah, we always have to walk through it. And #2–is so true! It’s funny how people will you tell you right up who/what they are, and so often we choose not to believe it. Xo
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:57 pm

      Debi,
      I shall never forget. Somebody asked me about Kay’s relationship w/ Mike. “When did it all begin?” they asked. “In the very beginning.” I answered. I only wish we would have known the outcome then. x
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  31. Carol Graham says

    April 13, 2014 at 6:32 am

    I don’t have words – everything I want to say has already been said in the comments and seems empty to repeat them. I watched and read it and watched and read it again. What strength must have come out of this for her dear sister. When I speak to Battered Women\’s groups, every story I hear is so sad and so very unnecessary. How my heart goes out to all those who have to live with this.
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 8:58 pm

      Carol,
      I love that you are helping women. We cannot do it alone….but if there are MANY of us working together…we can start a REVOLUTION. xx
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  32. Proactive Indian says

    April 13, 2014 at 7:03 am

    Kim, I humbly salute you for responding to your massive loss in the most noble way: working to ensure that others don’t go through what Kay did.
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 9:05 pm

      Dear, Proactive Indian,
      first of all, l LOVE your title: Proactive!
      I have an idea that you are using your VOICE in large, positive ways. x
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  33. Liz says

    April 13, 2014 at 7:28 am

    I like number 11 the most! Some good will and has come out of this horrific murder.

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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 9:06 pm

      Liz,
      I agree.
      #11 has been one of my greatest lessons. xx

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  34. Rajlakshmi says

    April 13, 2014 at 8:33 am

    Domestic violence has consumed so many lives. Your post and the video is so moving and powerful. I don’t know what else to say. I am glad that your are fighting against the cause of your sister’s demise. One of mother’s cousin sister burned herself due to domestic violence. They still mourn and remember her. It breaks my heart everytime visit them.
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 9:07 pm

      O, I am so very sorry about your relative. I mourn for her, too. x

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  35. Fab says

    April 13, 2014 at 9:17 am

    You make a very valid point, Kim – violence can happen in any country, any time, at any age. And yes, no matter how much we want to, we can’t help sometimes. I’m so glad you’ve started this movement – more women need the right support and courage to escape from an abusive relationship. Thank you Corinne, for introducing us to Kim!
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 9:09 pm

      Dear, Fab,
      when I was taking about “SAVING” I was mostly talking about Kay’s murderer. We thought he would change…He never did. x
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  36. Ananya Kiran says

    April 13, 2014 at 10:09 am

    Hey Corinne, I have read KIM’s blog before, must say I admire her for everything she is and every word she writes !
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 9:20 pm

      Ananya,
      thank you for reading. It is so much appreciated. x
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  37. shivakapoor says

    April 13, 2014 at 10:20 am

    Thanks Kim ..Thanks for being so brave and so strong. It is in such life stories that we find the will to go on with all the pain, loss and difficulties in life with strength and endurance. Noone can take away the pain of your loss..but all I can say is I felt it with you and I am sure that the beautiful soul of your sister is smiling from the other side of the God and feeling proud of you!!!
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 9:23 pm

      Shivakapoor,
      what a beautiful, kind comment.
      I am always quite amazed with somebody says I’m brave, strong…
      because sometimes I feel abundantly, utterly weak.
      Than you for reading. x
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  38. Pratibha says

    April 13, 2014 at 2:20 pm

    I am saddened to read about your sister. Thank you for being so brave and working for a cause that exists almost everywhere.
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    • My Inner Chick says

      April 13, 2014 at 9:24 pm

      Dear, Pratibha,
      Yes, this epidemic is EVERYWHERE.
      And what it’s truly about is RESPECT & being Valued.
      Kay would continually say “I wish he respected me….valued me.”
      he never did.
      x
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  39. Suzanne Fluhr says

    April 13, 2014 at 2:42 pm

    Thank you for trusting us enough to share the things you have learned on your painful journey.
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