In the times we’re going through right now, there could be 101 reasons why you don’t feel like smiling. But I’m also sure that for every one of those reasons, you’ll probably also find a reason to smile – if you look carefully.
A newsletter I received from Cheryl Richardson read:
This week, become aware of the little things that make you smile. As you notice them, pay attention to how they make you feel. If they feel good, really good, attach value to them immediately. Tell yourself, “This is the kind of experience that matters. I want more of this in my life.”
The Little Things That Make Me Smile
So I start to notice and pay attention to the little things that make me smile. And I realize that my list grows – if only I let it. I wrote this post in 2013 and have updated it with a new list of things that made me smile today! I thought it was so relevant for these time.
- Pablo and Lucky giving me an early morning nuzzle to let me know they are awake.
- An early morning cuddle from my husband.
- My first cup of coffee in the morning.
- A local stray dog (the kids around have called him Bruno) that comes so happily to greet Pablo and me on our walk,
- A wholesome breakfast made by my husband
- The scent of my soap, shampoo, talc and cream.
- The scent of a agarbatthi ( joss stick ) I’ve burned as I work.
- A crazy conversation with an old friend that went on and on – with so many pauses for laughter.
- A picture another friend sent me of her newly born granddaughter! (Yes, some of my contemporaries are grandparents!)
- The sounds of birds and watching them come to feed at the feeder we have our little front patch.
This list is only from today and it’s certainly not complete.
There’s lots more where that came from – thousands of other moments that I haven’t listed here. Isn’t that reason to smile?
The little things? The little moments? They aren’t little.
Joh Kabat-Zinn
What are the things that made you smile today?
Those are wise words indeed. This is what I’m trying to teach my kids, as well. If you can find something to smile about when the chips are down, you can get through anything in life.
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Oh this is a fantastic activity to do to get the spirits up during this lockdown time. Thank you for sharing this, Corinne. I will do a post like this next time. ❤️
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I have been waiting for one particular rose plant to start blooming. The reason being, all the rest of my rose plants started flowering except that one. Today, in the morning when i went to my balcony to water the plants I saw a small bud surface on that rose plant. Seeing that made me smile and it filled my heart with joy!
Life is these simple moments which we tend to overlook when we are running. Virus has certainly made us look into the little blessings.
Little things we take for granted and the ones that make us smile from within!
My birdies make me smile first thing in the morning. The picture of my Chikoo that suddenly pops up in my FB feed surprises me and makes me smile as I think of the times I spent with him. Hubby’s sense of humour makes me smile. 🙂 And yes, the chats with friends, the laughter, the inside jokes…they all make me smile and forget the stress.
It is these small little things that makes life so beautiful and make a huge difference too! Loved reading this post ♥
That’s a lovely list Cory, and Im tempted to make one of mine in my journal, right away.
Thanks for this cheery post amidst the uncertain times.
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Glad you liked it, Natasha. I’d love to take a peek at your list.
Stay safe and well.
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How simple things can make one happy.
Those ten points are something everyone goes through, but we seldom pause and smile 🙂
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How interesting– as I comment on this I note you start the article with “101 reasons” why one may not smile and there are 101 comments saying how people smiled. That makes me smile 🙂 🙂 🙂
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What a nice observations, Bhavana! It made me smile too. ♥
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Awesome! I agree that little things are not so little. I started noting down the list of things iam grateful for every day. Feels good.
Indeed, and sometimes it is these small things that we neglect while we go over stressing about the larger challenges we face in our lives. Your post definitely made me think of my own list. And like you pointed out, it is the really simple things that bring us joy while we go chasing happiness elsewhere.
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I’ve learned the awesome power of focusing on the small things that we so take for granted in our daily routine, Rachna. I’ve seen how gratitude automatically accompanies this practice and then leaves not much room for cribbing. Thanks for sharing. ♥
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Ah, I am late here otherwise would have joined the linky love. Reading your list made me smile wide this morning adding to the quota of morning smiles. Points 2, 4, 8 and 9 are absolute lovely reasons to smile. I would also add some more here,
* Listening to the talk R gives in super cute mode
* A thoughtful comment on my post
* Smiling at a random stranger
I have many more things that make me smile but I wouldn’t want to take a lot of space.
Keep smiling and loving.
Joy always,
Susan
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Thanks, Sus. Now I’m ever so curious about R’s talk in super cute mode – video please! 😉 You’re welcome to using as much space as you want here, anytime!
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Pheww. so many comments!! I had to scroll down soooooooo much! he he…
My niece’s smile is so divine.. it’s contagious. She is barely 3 months old. 🙂
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Wow! Didn’t realize you had a niece, Punam. Yes, children have a special way of making us smile!
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Wonderful topic Corrine! Thanks a tonne for this post! I really made me sit back and count my blessings! Thanks a lot! 🙂
And here is my post: http://jincythinks.blogspot.in/2013/02/the-little-things-that-make-me-smile.html
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Thanks, Jincy. I thoroughly enjoyed reading your list – I’m sure it’s adding to the smiles of many others!
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Glad I’m late to the party because I got to enjoy all the commenters’ reasons to smile. And you have a gazillion comments to make you smile! I call smiling one of the two starter habits in the 10 Steps. (The other starter habit is belly breathing.)
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I’m surprised at the response too, Galen – the simple things, huh? 🙂 Belly breathing and smiling sounds like fantastic habits to form.
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Thanks so much, Roshini. ♥
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You are right, Corinne. There are many things we fail to notice that brings a smile on our face. Today, the thing that brought a smile on my face…umm…the small brownies with orange and pink shaded cream on top of it..I was passing by to heat my food at work and saw them on a table…got so tempted that I went back and grabbed one…yummyy…and my son’s everyday good night hug and kiss are the best…no matter what happens..we yell at him, scold him, punish him, he does that..kids are so forgetful..and that’s a blessing 🙂
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The brownies sounds delicious and you telling me about them made me smile, Latha. Yes, kids can bring loads of smiles into our lives!
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I love this post. I too get happy with my favorite soap. I thought I was odd.
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Mmmmm..now I’m wondering what your favorite soap, Adriana. Mine is sandalwood. Ever tried it?
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Lovely list. Sometimes it’s too easy to forget the ‘good’ things in life!
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Thanks, Paula. Oh yes, but we can’t afford to forget what really matters, can we? 🙂
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My dear friend,
It is always nice when we lift each other’s spirit. You are very good at this. Nice post as always.
So nice to have you back on the internet, Andy. Your comeback lifted a lot of spirits! 🙂
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
so sweet! what made me smile today? first thing this morning, feeling appreciation for the work i’m doing in The Artists Way. my girlfriend texting me just to say ‘i love you!’ the beautiful photos i was processing from last night — i’m amazed by the quality of the ‘capture’ and also reminded of the fun of the event. talking with another girlfriend about something i learned in The Artists Way this morning about handling anger and seeing the light come on behind her eyes about a challenge she was facing with that subject — realizing again we’re all connected. reading your post and reliving my smiles. thank you! xoxoxo
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The Artist’s Way is a huge part of my conversation too these days, Linda. It’s amazing how it affects us – when all it does is remind us to be ourselves. You are one of my reasons for smiling too! ♥
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Great topic! I am so glad you shared. This is just the sort of topic to help me get back into the swing of things. I’ve been gone for awhile, but I am back to blogging.
Susan Dusterhoft
Today’s Working Woman
todaysworkingwoman25.blogspot.com
Welcome back to blogging, Susan and thanks for your lovely post on the hop!
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Such a fab idea!! I am going to do this as my next post!!
So many things make me smile, and it would be lovely to make a list! 🙂
Thank you Corinne 🙂
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My post is done and I’ve borrowed the same title! I hope that’s ok 🙂
Pixie recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Glad you liked the prompt. You’re most welcome to the title – that was the idea! 🙂 Loved your post!
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–Just reading what makes you smile makes me SMILE 🙂 Xxx
YOU always make me smile, Kim! ♥
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Hi Corinne
I try to smile when things aren’t so great, it is hard to stay stressed and angry when you use those smile muscles.
My Siamese cat that I have a conversation with makes me laugh. I smile when both of the cats are asleep and they make little sounds, I wonder what they are dreaming about. Life would be pretty boring if they were not in it. They bring so much joy.
Mary
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So true, Mary. A smile can be mood changing. Pets are a huge source of joy, aren’t they? I’m not a cat person, but our Pablo (a boxer) brings us much joy and madness!
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My daughter who is living in Santa Fe and going to college, texting me to tell she found a job. She is keen to earn her own pocket money. I am proud of her determination and smile as I read her early morning greeting. “I got it, the job I wanted it. Made me smile.
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That’s great news, Brenda. I remember the posts you wrote when she was going off to college – so glad she’s settled in so well. Thanks for sharing.
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
I was not following ur blog and I realised this today 🙁
What made me smile today? Well write my brat is sleeping in my lap feeling very secure and here I am typing away…a serene moment but very precious 🙂
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I realize too that I haven’t been reading yours either, Smita. Thanks for stopping by. I can picture the moment you’ve shared and know why it’s so precious to you. ♥
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Your blog doesn’t open in my office 🙁
I wonder why….any ideas?
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Corrine,
A cuddle with my wife – of course..
A sumptuous meal..
Seeing my old friends at a function in our college.
Got the opportunity to judge the various food stall at our college.
Seeing my mother smile…
I can add on to the list and you deserve a 21 gun salute for sharing this amazing article and making us realize the importance of small things that makes us smile..
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Thanks for adding your list, Rafi. I see food made it twice in your list. I’m guessing you are a good Hyderabadi, right? 😉
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Hello Corrine,
Yes, you are rite..I am a foodie..How about you?
I am not from Hydreabad..A crossbreed infact..he he he..
Oops. ..Sorry I don’t know how I arrived at the fact that you live in Hyderabad. Now I’m curious to know where…
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The 7x7x7x7 Writing Prompt
Hello Corrine,
I currently live in God’s own country and I believe you are from the city of dreams, Mumbai.
Are you still curious about the land when the whole world belongs to God??
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Now I know – just love God’s own country! 🙂 I’m in Mumbai though a part of me is in Hyderabad – where I spent most of my life!
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This is beautiful! I’m going to start doing this in my life. I find verbalizing the fact that I’m enjoying a moment helps, too. Just saying, “I’m so happy right now,” really affirms it in my being.
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Verbalizing is a fantastic way of affirming a good feeling, Brynne. Great addition. Thank you.
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Loved the list! If the beginning of the day was so good, i am sure the day went on the be one of the perfect days 🙂
Thanks, Akanksha. It was. But then all days are – or at least that’s how I wish to remember them! 😉
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Oh how beautiful! There are so many things to smile about each and everyday…and this day, what brought me to smile first thing in the morning is the sight of my mom… a wonderful breakfast… music… our newly painted stairs and walls, my Saturdate’s SMS, friends’ messages 🙂 I feel so loved and blessed… what is just missing is a cuddle from my husband LOL…
Lots of love BS ~ your list also made me smile 😉
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Thanks for sharing all that makes you smile, Melissa. The one that’s missing made me smile – knowing that someday soon it will be on your list! Wishing, hoping, praying….
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Hi Jenn – I’m so glad I could host this hop – the topic just ‘ came to me’ and I’m looking forward to reading the other posts too.
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
I think it’s so easy to focus on the bad things, the uncomfortable things, and the sad things that happen to us day to day, but it takes a strong person to focus on the small things that make you smile, because that is really what get’s us through. Thank you for sharing!
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You said it so well, Rachel. I do think that if we can make a habit of focus on things that make us smile, life would be much simpler for us and the people we live with!; )
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
awesome topic! iuno what i’d write for this one but your reasons are great 🙂
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Thanks so much, Jenny. Your blog looks wonderful now!
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Awesome list! <3 Very wonderful prompt. Uplifting and fun!! I love this <3
Emily Rose recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Thanks, Emily Rose. Your list of things that made you smile was inspiring!
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The 7x7x7x7 Writing Prompt
HI Corinne,
This is the post of the day for me, I was down and out because of some personal reasons but your post lifted the spirit. We at times overlook some small things and search for the joy in big things.
Thanks for sharing this.
Sapna
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Thank you for sharing, Sapna. I’m glad this post helped you feel better. I know your posts always bring a smile to my face. ♥
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The 7x7x7x7 Writing Prompt
Isn’t it amazing how it is the little things that make us smile. Loved your list – it made me smile too.
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Thanks, Suzy. Yours was very inspiring, my friend!
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aww I am the one who should be thankful to you for being part of this journey with my twins. All your lovely comments makes me feel blessed. Hugs and this is such a warm post that will bring a smile on anyone’s face
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Thanks for sharing your joy with us, Sakshi. They’re lovely little fellows and it’s so great to see Mother-love in action! 🙂
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The 7x7x7x7 Writing Prompt
Totally agree with your sentiment! Everything depends on our attitude towards life!
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Thanks, Roshini. Yes, attitude makes us happy or depressed – take your choice, right? 🙂
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The 7x7x7x7 Writing Prompt
Your post on smiling made me smile!
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Thanks so much, Audrey. Your comment did that to me. 😉
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
There certainly are many little things that will make us smile each day if only we take the time to let them.
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Oh yes, there are, Joyce. Thank you for sharing your list of ‘happies’ 🙂
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Beautiful post and was so very happy to link up this week with my post of what makes me happy. Thanks for hosting Corinne 🙂