In the times we’re going through right now, there could be 101 reasons why you don’t feel like smiling. But I’m also sure that for every one of those reasons, you’ll probably also find a reason to smile – if you look carefully.
A newsletter I received from Cheryl Richardson read:
This week, become aware of the little things that make you smile. As you notice them, pay attention to how they make you feel. If they feel good, really good, attach value to them immediately. Tell yourself, “This is the kind of experience that matters. I want more of this in my life.”
The Little Things That Make Me Smile
So I start to notice and pay attention to the little things that make me smile. And I realize that my list grows – if only I let it. I wrote this post in 2013 and have updated it with a new list of things that made me smile today! I thought it was so relevant for these time.
- Pablo and Lucky giving me an early morning nuzzle to let me know they are awake.
- An early morning cuddle from my husband.
- My first cup of coffee in the morning.
- A local stray dog (the kids around have called him Bruno) that comes so happily to greet Pablo and me on our walk,
- A wholesome breakfast made by my husband
- The scent of my soap, shampoo, talc and cream.
- The scent of a agarbatthi ( joss stick ) I’ve burned as I work.
- A crazy conversation with an old friend that went on and on – with so many pauses for laughter.
- A picture another friend sent me of her newly born granddaughter! (Yes, some of my contemporaries are grandparents!)
- The sounds of birds and watching them come to feed at the feeder we have our little front patch.
This list is only from today and it’s certainly not complete.
There’s lots more where that came from – thousands of other moments that I haven’t listed here. Isn’t that reason to smile?
The little things? The little moments? They aren’t little.
Joh Kabat-Zinn
What are the things that made you smile today?
What a wonderful thought for a post! Listing what makes us smile would certainly add more smiles in our day and also will help us to appreciate smaller things better!
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Ah thanks, Shilpa. It was Cheryl Richardson that set me off. And yes, appreciation is certainly a way to make us smile more.
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..Friendship Redefined?
Things that made me smile today so far and it’s only 10am here! Being woken by my precious five year old. Eating breakfast with him. Reading this post. Watching my boy sit at his school desk with his little pals. Seeing a dog on a lead determined to go his own way despite his owner tugging him the other way. My nine feral cats gathered in the garden awaiting breakfast.
Thanks for sharing, Claire. Children and animals certainly have a way of bringing a smile to our face!
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Very nice thought Corinne. Actually there is lot in life to be happy about.
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Oh yes, so much to be happy and thankful for, Jas!
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
This is a great exercise. I’ll definitely do this, starting today. I’ll really make an effort to attach significance to the things that make me smile and remember them. They’ll be good for when I don’t feel so good. 🙂
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Oh yes, Anne. I am finding it a very useful exercise too. It’s hard to stay unhappy when you remember to smile! 😉
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Familiar with point no. 8. And, now we know what you do the rest of the time.
Inspirational post again.
Point 8? I wonder why that is, Janaki? 😉 Like Jose says, now you all know how I waste my time! 😉
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
As I read this post and gave a thought to what makes me smile, my list looked like yours in some points ( esp.point no. 8 ) 😉 Then slowly,as I mulled over it , the list became longer . You see, this in itself brought a smile to my lips.
sharmila recently posted..The White Quilt
Point No.8 – you too? I wonder who you’ve been having these crazy conversations with, Sharmila!
Oh yes, the more we focus on the good stuff, the longer the list gets!
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
I can spend hours together smiling looking at some of my very interesting pictures over the years
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Looking at old pictures is certainly a great way to bring smiles, Mr Chowla.
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
What a great post! Very positive! It reminds me of the concept of finding gratitude in the small things of life.
This morning, what made me smile, was meeting warm, not icy air, as I went outside to walk my dog.
Having a home that hummed with electricity, children eating a nourishing breakfast, and reading a status update from a fb friend where he wrote the following:
“Today I’m going to give to those who can’t repay. This includes giving hope to someone who has given up.”
How beautiful is that??
Hope today brings many smiles for you Corinne. <3
Hi Jessica – Thank you for sharing what made you happy. It’s amazing how much focusing on the simple things can bring an attitude of gratitude into our lives.
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Indeed! And your post made me smile too! Thanks for the gin and tonic.
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You’re very welcome, USP. The gin and tonic is on me! 😉
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Oh Corinne, your list made me smile 🙂 As I’m just getting started in my day, the quiet of the morning makes me smile, the snowflakes slowly passing through the brisk air outside my window is certainly bringing a smile to my face. And, of course, my hot cup of coffee and my ‘blankie’ over my legs is bringing a smile to my face.
I’ll have to check this blog hop out and maybe later I can join in. My father has been ill and in the bed for almost 2 weeks now and has consumed quite a bit of my time.
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Thank you for sharing the simple things that make you smile, Mary. I’m sorry to hear about your Dad. I do hope he’s doing better now.
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Such a wonderful list and this prompt warms my heart. I can not wait to write my contribution. Thank you for the inspiration!!!
Kathy
http://gigglingtruckerswife.blogspot.com
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Thanks, Kathy. Loved reading your post too.
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Hi Corinee,
Very nice topic Corinee.It is a great thing that can give you happiness in the world “smile”.I have huge list to smile.When i wake up in the morning first thing i go to my pet dog silently and see his activity he at that time plays alot and looks very funny, i go to shower i remember some old things i smile, i come to my table to see the comments on my blog and smile. i have many thing to smile sometime i dont have anything still i smile i dont know why i realize it afterward. LOL its funny.
Thank You
Shorya Bist
From Youthofest
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Dogs do have a way of making us smile, don’t they, Shorya? What breed is yours and what’s his name? Our Pablo, a boxer, is absolutely nuts!
Yes, the feedback from readers does make us smile – as your comment just did! 🙂
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..Friendship Redefined?
I love this post! Thanks for being first on my list of reasons to smile today!
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Thanks for stopping by, Liz.
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Nice post…we should take time to appreciate everything around us…but sometimes life gets in the way. Finishing Day 31 of the Blog Challenge made me smile today, mending my mobile phone and having fun at my French conversation class this morning also made me smile.
Congratulations on completing the UBC. Well done – that’s surely a reason to smile!
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Things which make us smile are often those little things happening each day which also make us grateful. Smiling fills our lives with joy and radiates that joy to everyone around us. That’s what your post did for me today, Corinne!
Blessings and love!
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You’re so right, Martha. The little things are what bring us so much joy! Keep smiling – you certainly know how to spread the smiles. ♥
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
What a marvellous idea and an instant mood brightener! Thank you, Corinne, for this great post. I found it on the Writer’s Post group and will be joining your blog hop shortly. Cheers!
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Thanks for joining the hop, Debbie. Loved your post too.
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Beautiful post and was so very happy to link up this week with my post of what makes me happy. Thanks for hosting Corinne 🙂
Thanks for linking up, Janine.
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
There certainly are many little things that will make us smile each day if only we take the time to let them.
Joyce recently posted..Writer’s Post: Little Things That Make Me Smile
Oh yes, there are, Joyce. Thank you for sharing your list of ‘happies’ 🙂
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Your post on smiling made me smile!
Audrey Howitt recently posted..Rain in Fussen
Thanks so much, Audrey. Your comment did that to me. 😉
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Totally agree with your sentiment! Everything depends on our attitude towards life!
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Thanks, Roshini. Yes, attitude makes us happy or depressed – take your choice, right? 🙂
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aww I am the one who should be thankful to you for being part of this journey with my twins. All your lovely comments makes me feel blessed. Hugs and this is such a warm post that will bring a smile on anyone’s face
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Thanks for sharing your joy with us, Sakshi. They’re lovely little fellows and it’s so great to see Mother-love in action! 🙂
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Isn’t it amazing how it is the little things that make us smile. Loved your list – it made me smile too.
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Thanks, Suzy. Yours was very inspiring, my friend!
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HI Corinne,
This is the post of the day for me, I was down and out because of some personal reasons but your post lifted the spirit. We at times overlook some small things and search for the joy in big things.
Thanks for sharing this.
Sapna
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Thank you for sharing, Sapna. I’m glad this post helped you feel better. I know your posts always bring a smile to my face. ♥
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The 7x7x7x7 Writing Prompt
Awesome list! <3 Very wonderful prompt. Uplifting and fun!! I love this <3
Emily Rose recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Thanks, Emily Rose. Your list of things that made you smile was inspiring!
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The 7x7x7x7 Writing Prompt
awesome topic! iuno what i’d write for this one but your reasons are great 🙂
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Thanks so much, Jenny. Your blog looks wonderful now!
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
I think it’s so easy to focus on the bad things, the uncomfortable things, and the sad things that happen to us day to day, but it takes a strong person to focus on the small things that make you smile, because that is really what get’s us through. Thank you for sharing!
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You said it so well, Rachel. I do think that if we can make a habit of focus on things that make us smile, life would be much simpler for us and the people we live with!; )
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Hi Jenn – I’m so glad I could host this hop – the topic just ‘ came to me’ and I’m looking forward to reading the other posts too.
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Oh how beautiful! There are so many things to smile about each and everyday…and this day, what brought me to smile first thing in the morning is the sight of my mom… a wonderful breakfast… music… our newly painted stairs and walls, my Saturdate’s SMS, friends’ messages 🙂 I feel so loved and blessed… what is just missing is a cuddle from my husband LOL…
Lots of love BS ~ your list also made me smile 😉
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Thanks for sharing all that makes you smile, Melissa. The one that’s missing made me smile – knowing that someday soon it will be on your list! Wishing, hoping, praying….
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Loved the list! If the beginning of the day was so good, i am sure the day went on the be one of the perfect days 🙂
Thanks, Akanksha. It was. But then all days are – or at least that’s how I wish to remember them! 😉
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
This is beautiful! I’m going to start doing this in my life. I find verbalizing the fact that I’m enjoying a moment helps, too. Just saying, “I’m so happy right now,” really affirms it in my being.
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Verbalizing is a fantastic way of affirming a good feeling, Brynne. Great addition. Thank you.
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Corrine,
A cuddle with my wife – of course..
A sumptuous meal..
Seeing my old friends at a function in our college.
Got the opportunity to judge the various food stall at our college.
Seeing my mother smile…
I can add on to the list and you deserve a 21 gun salute for sharing this amazing article and making us realize the importance of small things that makes us smile..
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Thanks for adding your list, Rafi. I see food made it twice in your list. I’m guessing you are a good Hyderabadi, right? 😉
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Hello Corrine,
Yes, you are rite..I am a foodie..How about you?
I am not from Hydreabad..A crossbreed infact..he he he..
Oops. ..Sorry I don’t know how I arrived at the fact that you live in Hyderabad. Now I’m curious to know where…
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The 7x7x7x7 Writing Prompt
Hello Corrine,
I currently live in God’s own country and I believe you are from the city of dreams, Mumbai.
Are you still curious about the land when the whole world belongs to God??
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Now I know – just love God’s own country! 🙂 I’m in Mumbai though a part of me is in Hyderabad – where I spent most of my life!
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I was not following ur blog and I realised this today 🙁
What made me smile today? Well write my brat is sleeping in my lap feeling very secure and here I am typing away…a serene moment but very precious 🙂
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I realize too that I haven’t been reading yours either, Smita. Thanks for stopping by. I can picture the moment you’ve shared and know why it’s so precious to you. ♥
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Your blog doesn’t open in my office 🙁
I wonder why….any ideas?
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
My daughter who is living in Santa Fe and going to college, texting me to tell she found a job. She is keen to earn her own pocket money. I am proud of her determination and smile as I read her early morning greeting. “I got it, the job I wanted it. Made me smile.
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That’s great news, Brenda. I remember the posts you wrote when she was going off to college – so glad she’s settled in so well. Thanks for sharing.
Corinne Rodrigues recently posted..The Little Things That Make Me Smile
Hi Corinne
I try to smile when things aren’t so great, it is hard to stay stressed and angry when you use those smile muscles.
My Siamese cat that I have a conversation with makes me laugh. I smile when both of the cats are asleep and they make little sounds, I wonder what they are dreaming about. Life would be pretty boring if they were not in it. They bring so much joy.
Mary
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