so much more
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So Much More

I wrote this on May 4th 2017 when we got the shocking news of a cousin who died in a road accident. Today, I recalled this and wanted to share it as Easter and her birthday are approaching. Although she I really discovered her when I got married and went to live in Mumbai, I realized that she and her husband we so much more than I had known them to be.

So Much More

Last night we got the tragic news of your passing, dear cousin.
I, who hardly made the effort to keep in touch with you
Continue to see your face, hear  your voice
And imagine your last, painful and very scary moments.
I can’t image how it must be for those closer to you.
You were always kind and generous to me
And I’m grateful to have known you.

You’ve lived a full life
And I hope that all your efforts to bring
Peace, comfort and laughter to others
Brought you some measure of peace and comfort too.
You had your quirks (don’t we all?)
Yet you were so much more than your quirks
You were a caring daughter
A most involved mother
A good doctor
A dedicated employee
An upstanding member of your community
A good and loyal friend
And a loving cousin.
In the ever loving arms of the Father
May you find
Much more comfort
Constant peace
Plenty of laughter and
So much more love
Than you’ve ever experienced.

Rest in peace, dear cousin.

In the words of that beautiful prayer said at funerals:
May the angels lead you to Paradise;
May the martyrs come to welcome you
and lead you to the holy city,
the new and eternal Jerusalem.


As I mentioned in my post week before last, #MondayMusings will no longer have a linky. I will be linking in at Anita Ojeda’s Inspire Me Monday instead.


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An inspirational writer, a creativity and writing trainer/coach, I write about life, gratitude, healing, wellness, relationships at Everyday Gyaan. I offer training/coaching to anyone looking to explore their creativity and heal through writing via The Frangipani Creative, located in Secunderabad, India. You can also find me on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter. Sign up for my weekly newsletter, Bytes of Gyaan, on Substack.

8 Comments on “So Much More

  1. I am so sorry for your loss, Corinne. What a beautiful heart-felt tribute to your late cousin. “May the angels lead you to Paradise”. Amen!

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