Life and Inspiration - Personal Development

In Conversation With Lance Ekum

His was one of the first websites in the Personal Development genre that I visited when I first started blogging. His website, The Jungle of Life, was impressive in every way – it looked wonderful, the content was very authentic and inspiring and most of all he had the ability to create his own community of writers and commentators on his website.

Four years in to blogging, I’m so happy to be able to interview for Everyday Gyaan Lance Ekum, a person I looked up to as a new blogger and someone I continue to admire for his authenticity.

Industrial Engineering to Life Coaching how did that happen, Lance?

First off, thanks so much, Corinne, for having me here on your site. It’s an honor to be here, and to share with you and your wonderful readers.

Coming out of high school, I had a strong sense that I wanted to study engineering. At the time, it was a really good fit – as it was something that both challenged me and played on my strengths. After graduating from college, I became employed by a company that was very involved in technology – which led me away from my Industrial Engineering degree, and more down the path of computers and their workings.

That has all been good – and continues to be. The thing is, though, that there was a deeper part of me that was not being fully expressed. In fact, from taking various tests – I have come to find out that my stronger areas are in the along the lines of “intuition” and “feeling”. These are very much not typical for an engineer (or someone working in the information technology field).

So, I suppose it’s been a journey to get to where I am today. And it’s a journey that continues – as I continue to understand “me” more fully.

As you have noted, there is this area of “life coaching” that I have pursued, as well – most recently through the work I’ve done at the Jungle of Life. What I’ve found, though, is that this – while very much adding meaning to my life – is not a core strength for me. I have just recently scaled back the life coaching work I’ve been doing – and am once again evaluating “me” at a deeper level.

I’m okay with all of this, though. I’m right where I’m supposed to be, and life is continuing to unfold for me. What that next chapter looks like is beginning to be written…

I love your ‘family tree’ on your website. I shows how important your family is to you. How do you balance your work and family life?

Family is definitely an important part of my life – and my family definitely keeps me busy! Balance…it’s an interesting thing – because when I think balance I everything kind of “balancing out” most of the time. And in reality – it’s not like that for me. Some days – family activities can take all my time, sometimes work activities play a bigger role, sometimes I become completely focused on the Jungle of Life and its readership, etc. So for me – it’s about harmony – and I maintaining what feels like “harmony” in my life (and in what matters in my life).

The truth is – sometimes I do well at it, and other times I drop the ball. I guess, though, when I do drop the ball – it’s about recognizing that and then working to be more cognizant of what really matters in my life.

Again…all part of that journey…

You say life is an adventure. What would be the biggest adventure you’ve undertaken, Lance?

This is a difficult one to answer, Corinne!  See – I could look at some of the individual life adventures I’ve been on – many of which have felt “big”. The thing is, though – some of these have just been a one-time event (although I am changed because of each of these).

So, the biggest adventure is probably the adventure of creating a family. From marrying my wife, to the birth and raising of our three kids – and all the life experiences we’ve had together (and moments that we have amongst all those years) – the adventure of creating a family has been pretty spectacular. Each day is something new – sometimes challenging, often filled with joy, and always surrounded by love…

The economy is not doing too well and things are difficult at present. What keeps you inspired and motivated?

I’ve been fortunate to have not been too adversely affected by the general state of the economy. Still, I like to look at everything with a “glass half full” approach. I really do believe that there’s a silver lining in our life – always. Maybe we have experienced something terrible, or we’ve lost a job, or whatever. Still – the power of the human spirit, at its finest, is so amazing. And that IS within each of us…

I really try to hold that focus – that we are amazing, amazing souls…each of us. And in that, life is amazing…

What would you say is the USP of the Life Directions Coaching you offer?

As I have stated above – I am taking a step back from the Life Directions Coaching. And I’m doing this because I really was not fully vested in what that USP was – what it was that I really offered (and how I connected with that).

So, thank you for asking me about this – and in that, helping me to take that step out and say – at this moment, this is not the place I want to be in.

Maybe someday I’ll revisit life coaching as a service. For now, though, I’m happy just using the Jungle of Life to be a place of inspiration and guidance – and to help guide people, should they need that, to other resources that can help them on their own journey.

Thank you so much, Lance – and not just for this interview.

Corinne, thank you, again, for having me here. While I hope that your readers get something from this – know that it has been most beneficial for me to let these questions (and their answers) ruminate in my soul.

So my dear readers, please head over to The Jungle of Life and get to know Lance better. 

May you be inspired – every day!


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An inspirational writer, a creativity and writing trainer/coach, I write about life, gratitude, healing, wellness, relationships at Everyday Gyaan. I offer training/coaching to anyone looking to explore their creativity and heal through writing via The Frangipani Creative, located in Secunderabad, India. You can also find me on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter. Sign up for my weekly newsletter, Bytes of Gyaan, on Substack.

25 Comments on “In Conversation With Lance Ekum

  1. Great interview! He’s definitely on an amazing journey of discovery that is continually unfolding. I like what he had to say in regards to harmonizing, rather than balancing, time with family.

    1.  Hi Jessica,
      …it’s been a wonderful journey – even the parts where things haven’t went quite as planned…

      And – that word “harmony” is one I really love – it feels more possible for me than what I typically think of when I use the word “balance”.  Today, part of the harmonizing will be soaking up some of the warmth and sunshine we’re having!

  2. Hello Corinne

    What I like best about this interview is Lance’s candid responses to your questions. I can relate to what he says on the evaluation front. Thanks for the introduction. I have bookmarked his site to read asap. BestPadmavani

    1.  Hi Padmavani,
      Thanks.  I’ve found that when I’m most authentic – I connect both with myself and with others at a deeper and more meaningful level (and that, as well, continues to be part of the journey…).

  3. Thanks for this interview Corinne, you sure are inspiring us by getting us to meet people who are inspired and in turn help others lead a mindful living.

  4. Love the interview and especially the authenticate  open nature of the responses.  Life is a journey and part of it is discovering and trying on new roles.  Sometimes they fit, sometimes they don’t.  So important to be open to the possibilities as Lance is.  

    1.  Hi Lynne,
      Thank you.  And that’s it – life is a journey…for each of us.  When we choose to live that journey more fully in alignment with our heart…it’s such an amazing process of discovery and growth (no matter how things work out)…

  5. I always say that my greatest story will be the story of creating our family.  I love the idea of seeing it as an adventure!

    1. Thanks Blond Duck – it really is an adventure…raising a family (and some days….more so than others!!).

  6. You  seemed to have followed your path with the most important by your side… family. It is very rare to find that balance between following one’s inner words and those that surround us..
    Thank you

    1. Hi Savira,
      Thank you.  And with everything that can pull us in some direction – following a path that has the most meaning can definitely be challenging.  I appreciate your words, and am reminded of how truly meaningful it is when I do follow that path…

  7. Wonderful interview Corinne…I will be checking The Jungle of Life  out later, I am interested in reading more from Lance. Thank you.

  8. Thanks, Corinne, for asking some great questions that elicited such great answers.  I’ve read Lance’s blog for awhile and I always find something of great value there, just like I do here!

    1. Hi Galen,
      You are so, so super kind – thank YOU!!!
      It’s great having you here and reading this, too.

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  10. Loved the interview Lance & Corinne!
    I have known Lance for sometime now, though haven’t checked out his blog in a while now. Guess just got a little busy doing up my blogs and shifting them to WordPress :)It is indeed wonderful to know more about him here, and I loved the question you asked regarding the way he balances his work and family life. That is one question I always like to read and learn from fellow bloggers- guess it’s a learning experience for me as well! 
    Thanks so much for sharing :)BTW- The blog is looking wonderful Corinne- I do see many lovely changes on it- great going 🙂 

    1.  @Harleena Singh Hello Harleena, it’s great seeing you here today!
      And I know exactly what you mean about that “getting busy” part.  In fact, I’ve been taking a bit of a step back lately, just to feel more connected to what truly matters.
      Thanks for being here!

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