Showing newest 22 of 35 posts from February 2010. Show older posts
Showing newest 22 of 35 posts from February 2010. Show older posts

Spiritual Sunday - The Shepherd Boy

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To replace Quote of the Day - a spiritual offering every Sunday.

May you be inspired - everyday!



A shepherd boy fell sad one day,
Hating the hillside on which he stood;
He thought a distant hill he saw
More beautiful from afar,
And that going there would wipe away his sorrows.

So he set off to that distant hill,
But as he drew near it
It looked less good than it had from afar.

O shepherd boy, shepherd boy,
How can you expect to transform yourself
By changing your dwelling place?
If you move away can you leave yourself behind?

Sorrow and joy sprout in the heart,
If the heart is peaceful, you’ll be happy everywhere,
If the heart is in turmoil, every place brings sorrow.
A grain of dust in your eye
Brings discomfort speedily;
How can you then ignore this sharp awl!
That pierces your heart?

If you yearn for things outside yourself
You will never obtain what you are seeking
Why not put your own heart in order
And find peace on your own hillside?

Old and new writers alike give this advice:
there’s no advantage to roaming outside,
Keep the heart inside, for
That brings the profit.

~ Matteo Ricci

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The Tracks We Leave – Part 2

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In my post the other day I mentioned that we should make our death a meaningful experience for our loved ones. How can we do that when we really have no control over the time and manner of our death?

Like Cecelia Ahern very wisely says in her book 'The Gift' :"Believe me, when you die, it's everybody else's but your problem." So true. When you die, your loved ones have to cope with your loss, as well as make decisions and arrangements for your last rites. And in India at least, there are two questions that strike us:

1. What  kind of rites would the deceased wish to be performed? We don't want to spare any expense, but give our loved one all the honor and respect in death. Also, there are certain fears and superstitions about the soul of the deceased not being at peace unless certain rites are performed.

2. What will people say? I can again only speak from my experience in India, where the good opinion of every grand uncle and his brother and yes, even his friends, cause us to make choices, we might not have otherwise!

It becomes imperative then, that we ensure our family doesn't have to face any problems. All we need to do is to make our wishes in this regard, well known and ideally put them down in writing.

In my recent experience,  my cousin's father put it in writing that in case he was suffering from some terminal illness he should not be hospitalized, but as far as possible, die in his own home, surrounded by his family. He also mentioned (verbally) that he would like to be cremated, which is not a usual practice for Catholics in India. My cousin's family ensured that his wishes were fulfilled. They cared for him at home, all through the many years he suffered from Alzheimer's. As his physical condition deteriorated, they  ensured that he was constantly surrounded by family and friends. On the night of his death, his immediate family held him and sang to him as he passed away peacefully. 

The second wonderful choice I came across recently was that of my friend's mother. Vidya's mother chose to have her body donated to science and to have no last rites at all. Instead, she asked that the money usually spent on such rites be used towards the care of the needy. How true these words of Pericles are of her: "What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others." Vidya and her husband, Sury, have diligently carried out her wishes, despite a lot of pressure from the extended family. (Do read Vidya's new blog: I love you, Mom)

I've never been a great one for visiting cemeteries and I entirely subscribe to my mother's view of living bouquets. So I've decided that when I die, I too want to have my body donated to science and have no funeral rites. To make it easier for my loved ones I'm going to put this in writing (apparently there are forms available for registering yourself as a donor).

I know I'm going to be accused of morbidity for this post, but I just think it's practical to think about these things and like I said, make it easier for your family. And just for the record, I have no intention of shuffling off my  mortal coil anytime soon.

Do think of the tracks you're leaving in life and yes, even in death.

May you be inspired - everyday!



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Saturday Story - Who packs your parachute?

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On Saturdays, to replace Quote of the Day, I'll be sharing an inspirational story with you. Here's my  offering for this week.

May you be inspired - everyday!





Recently, I was sitting in a restaurant in Kansas City. A man about two tables away kept looking at me. I didn't recognize him. A few minutes into our meal he stood up and walked over to my table, looked down at me, pointed his finger in my face and said, "You're Captain Plumb."

I looked up and I said, "Yes sir, I'm Captain Plumb."

He said, "You flew jet fighters in Vietnam. You were on the aircraft carrier Kitty Hawk. You were shot down. You parachuted into enemy hands and spent six years as a prisoner of war."

I said, "How in the world did you know all that?"

He replied, "Because, I packed your parachute."

I was speechless. I staggered to my feet and held out a very grateful hand of thanks. This guy came up with just the proper words. He grabbed my hand, he pumped my arm and said, "I guess it worked."

"Yes sir, indeed it did", I said, "and I must tell you I've said a lot of prayers of thanks for your nimble fingers, but I never thought I'd have the opportunity to express my gratitude in person."

He said, "Were all the panels there?"

"Well sir, I must shoot straight with you," I said, "of the eighteen panels that were supposed to be in that parachute, I had fifteen good ones. Three were torn, but it wasn't your fault, it was mine. I jumped out of that jet fighter at a high rate of speed, close to the ground. That's what tore the panels in the chute. It wasn't the way you packed it."

"Let me ask you a question," I said, "do you keep track of all the parachutes you pack?"

"No" he responded, "it's enough gratification for me just to know that I've served."

I didn't get much sleep that night. I kept thinking about that man. I kept wondering what he might have looked like in a Navy uniform - a Dixie cup hat, a bib in the back and bell bottom trousers. I wondered how many times I might have passed him on board the Kitty Hawk. I wondered how many times I might have seen him and not even said "good morning", "how are you", or anything because, you see, I was a fighter pilot and he was just a sailor. How many hours did he spend on that long wooden table in the bowels of that ship weaving the shrouds and folding the silks of those chutes? I could have cared less...until one day my parachute came along and he packed it for me.

So the philosophical question here is this: How's your parachute packing coming along? Who looks to you for strength in times of need? And perhaps, more importantly, who are the special people in your life who provide you the encouragement you need when the chips are down? Perhaps it's time right now to give those people a call and thank them for packing your chute.

(Charles Plumb was a U.S. Navy jet pilot in Vietnam. After 75 combat missions, his plane was destroyed by a surface-to-air missile. Plumb ejected and parachuted into enemy hands. He was captured and spent 6 years in a communist Vietnamese prison. He survived the ordeal and now lectures on lessons learned from that experience.)

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Quote of the Day - 26/02/2010

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The difference between try and triumph is a little 'umph'.
~ Author Unknown


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Quote of the Day - 25/02/2010

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Meditate.
Live purely. Be quiet.
Do your work with mastery.
Like the moon, come out
from behind the clouds!
Shine!
~ The Buddha

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Quote of the Day - 24/02/2010

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A person will sometimes devote all his life to the development of one part of his body - the wishbone.
~ Robert Frost








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Quote of the Day – 23/02/2010

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Be like the turtle. If he didn’t stick his neck out, he wouldn’t get anywhere at all. ~Harvey Mackay


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Quote of the Day - 22/02/2010

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Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul
And sings the tune without the words
And never stops at all.
-- Emily Dickinson

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The Tracks We Leave - Part 1

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We will be known forever by the tracks we leave.
~ American Indian Proverb

Okay so here I am keeping my promise to start working on the fourteen topics I mentioned earlier. This post is on death. Yes, Lorena, I'm getting to 'evil' and 'monsters' quick, I promise!

Why have I chosen to talk of death? It's just that over the last month, two people  I'm close to have lost a parent. I observed that even though there was the obvious sorrow from the loss, both people also felt a great deal of pride about the choices their respective parents  made - in life and in death. Their parents will be known by the tracks they've left, especially in the hearts of the ones closest to them.

I began to think about my own death. And wondered how I was preparing for it.  If I were to die tomorrow what are the tracks I would leave? Are these the tracks I want to leave - or are there things in my person and life I want to change?

Years ago, I came across an exercise, I can't quite remember where. It involved preparing your own obituary. Does that seem morbid to you? I don't think it is.

The exercise provided an opportunity to honestly reflect on my life and figure out what I wanted to 'be' ( person) and what I want to 'do' (accomplishments) by the end of my life. In stating how I wanted to be remembered,  I was able to identify the values I wanted to live by. (On a lighter note, my Mum found my 'obituary' and got really worried that I was suicidal!!)

A lot has changed since I wrote that first obituary. For example, I've got married and have stopped being a working woman.  So, I have now decided to rework it and I promise to share it with you soon.

As we know death is inevitable - and we cannot really make a choice about how we want to die - unless we take our own lives. But I'm certain that just as we can make our lives count for something, we can also make our death a meaningful experience for others. I'll talk about this in the next part of this post.

Till then, think about the tracks you'll be leaving.

May you be inspired - everyday!





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Quote of the Day - 21/02/2010

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Neil Armstrong once said, 'You only have to solve two problems when going to the moon: first, how to get there; and second, how to get back. The key is, don't leave until you have solved both problems'.
~ Jim Rohn

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Quote of the Day - 20/02/2010

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We are not asked ... to believe in a perfect world. We are asked to equip ourselves with courage, hope, readiness for hard work and to cherish large and generous ideals.
~ Emily Balch

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Quote of the Day - 19/02/2010

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It takes courage to grow up and turn out to be who you really are.
~ e.e. cummings



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Quote of the Day - 18/02/2010

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When you do nothing, you feel overwhelmed and powerless. But when you get involved, you feel the sense of hope and accomplishment that comes from knowing you are working to make things better.
~ Pauline R. Kezer


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Quote of the Day - 17/02/2010

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So keep fighting for freedom and justice, beloveds, but don't forget to have fun doin' it. Be outrageous... rejoice in all the oddities that freedom can produce. And when you get through celebrating the sheer joy of a good fight, be sure to tell those who come after how much fun it was!

Molly Ivins, 1944-2007
American Author and Newspaper Columnist



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Quote of the Day - 16/02/2010

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You don't 'have' a soul. You 'are' a Soul. You 'have' a body.
~ Clive Staples Lewis
Irish Author and Scholar

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Quote of the Day - 15/02/2010

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Rubix Cube
Originally uploaded by jh08
Love is like the perfect Rubix Cube. There are countless number of wrong twists and turns, but when you get it right, it looks perfect no matter what way you look at it.
~ Brian Cramer







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Quote of the Day – 14/02/2010

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A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself - to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.
~ Leo F. Buscaglia

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The Claddagh

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Claddagh ring { 1/10 }
Originally uploaded by JoX1989
The Claddagh ring is a traditional Irish ring given as a token of love

The Claddagh is a visual portrayal of the eternal bond of friendship, loyalty, and love.

The Heart symbolizes love, life's finest impulse. From it, generosity and compassion flow.

The Hands of friendship are clasped around the heart in a gesture of giving. As they cradle the heart gently, the hands are both protective and strong, like true friendship.

The Crown symbolizes loyalty. It represents the reward of love, the highest achievement the human spirit has yet accomplished.

To give the Claddagh is to forge forever the bonds of love, friendship, and loyalty.

This Valentine's day I present each of you, my dear readers, a virtual Claddagh ring.

Thank you for your love, friendship and loyalty.

May you be inspired - everyday!



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Quote of the Day - 13/02/2010

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It is not enough to love those who are near and dear to us. We must show them that we do so.
~ Lord Eric Avebury

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Quote of the Day - 12/02/2010

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behind the mask
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Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.
--James A. Baldwin


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Quote of the Day - 11/02/2010

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Checkmates...
Originally uploaded by Ben Ward In Hove
Love is a game that two can play and both win.
~ Eva Gabor










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Noodling Around

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Noodle around: Informal. to play, experiment, or improvise.

I'm supposed to be working on the topics I mentioned to you recently. You would think that I'd make a quick start especially after some of you very sweetly responded with your choices. But no...what did I do instead? This:

Wordle: Topics

As you can see, I took the fourteen topics and worked them into a Wordle! I love 'wandering off' on the internet and through a series of clicks and links lose myself in the Web and find lots of thought-provoking online material. Just this morning, a 'techie' friend of mine, Ruben, gave me a link and I took a small 'walk on the internet'.  

In the past I would feel guilty about this 'waste' of time. Not any more. I've realized that by doing this from time to time, I actually feel challenged and it makes me more creative. I thought I was crazy, until I read some material that substantiates what I felt. And I have the perfect quote to go with this finding: So you see, imagination needs noodling - long, inefficient, happy idling, dawdling and puttering. ~ Brenda Ueland, writer

So now I'm free to 'roam' and imagine and noodle around. Try it and let me know if it works for you!.

May you be inspired - everyday!



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